I have been in and out of relationships for so many times before. I mean - you would guess I know how to handle myself in a serious commitment. I don't. I sometimes would still contemplate on even the simplest thing. Should I ask or not? Should we discuss about this or should I just shut up?
Of course you would want your partner to talk to you when there's something that's bothering him/her. The question is, to what extent? Even if the extent itself is acceptable, what would you do if it's something recurring?
My advise is - ask them. Do they want you to talk to them about your worries? Even if it's something stupid? Whatever it is, you have to talk to each other. There's no point of you going around feeling depressed and unloved when you wouldn't even talk to your significant other. I'm not puting the blame on the men or the women. I'm merely stating that no matter how difficult it might seem, you have to open your mouth and share.
Everything is about give and take. You spend half a day window shopping online - he spends his playing WOW. You have a soft spot for shoes - he has a soft spot for his previous fling. You have a habit of tickling him until he merajuks - he snores. So basically, yeah, give and take. =D
Just make sure, whatever it is, you're in it for real. If your heart's not in it, you know there's always a choice.
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