What Would You Prefer?

I have been in and out of relationships for so many times before. I mean - you would guess I know how to handle myself in a serious commitment. I don't. I sometimes would still contemplate on even the simplest thing. Should I ask or not? Should we discuss about this or should I just shut up? 

Of course you would want your partner to talk to you when there's something that's bothering him/her. The question is, to what extent? Even if the extent itself is acceptable, what would you do if it's something recurring?

My advise is - ask them. Do they want you to talk to them about your worries? Even if it's something stupid? Whatever it is, you have to talk to each other. There's no point of you going around feeling depressed and unloved when you wouldn't even talk to your significant other. I'm not puting the blame on the men or the women. I'm merely stating that no matter how difficult it might seem, you have to open your mouth and share.

Everything is about give and take. You spend half a day window shopping online - he spends his playing WOW. You have a soft spot for shoes - he has a soft spot for his previous fling. You have a habit of tickling him until he merajuks - he snores. So basically, yeah, give and take. =D

Just make sure, whatever it is, you're in it for real. If your heart's not in it, you know there's always a choice.

Heartbroken

Last Friday someone broke into my house during working hours. When I got back from work, the grill was unlock, the doorknob was broken, my house was turned upside down, inside out, and of course, the Vivienne Tam HP Mini, my faithful Acer Aspire, the gold ring with russian diamond my mother bought for me when I was 16 and the flower platinum ring with one big mother of pearl in the middle of the flower that my grandmother gave to me when I was a baby. :'(

I wasn't angry, I was a bit scared and mostly heartbroken. To see your home being messed up like that and to be under the realisation that a stranger has walked all around your house and bedroom is just... heartbreaking.

But all is well now.

And on a lighter (much much lighter) side note, Sunday went very well, and I'm happy! =D

Lovely Lashes

I am obsessed with eye make-up. Extremely obsessed. As most of you know, I'm half Chinese. Among all those traits I inherited from my Chinese blood, -apart from the skin, shape of eyes and stinginess - I also got my Chinese lashes.

Now few years ago, some companies have started to create eyelash conditioners to enhance your eyelashes i.e, make them stronger, healthier, longer.

Last December I bought a lash conditioner called RevitaLash Eyelash Conditioner. Had to buy it online since I couldn't find it here. I have been using it for approximately a little bit over a month now and I have to say I'm impressed!

These are what I've discovered:

• My lashes are in fact stronger,
• They have grown AT LEAST half a centimeter,
• I don't have to use mascara primer to make sure my lashes are seen!
• My once non-existent lower lashes are out to see the world!

There are some things I (perhaps) have yet to see such as:

• The promise of darker lashes (I have blond tipped lashes, funny, I know).
• Thicker lashes (They are a bit thicker but not as much - or it could be because I've only been using it for a bit over a month.)

All in all, I have to say I'm amazed and I'd definitely buy it again once I've finished mine (6 months supply, 5 months to go).  I bought mine through Amazon (Here's the link - RevitaLash Eyelash Conditioner) and though I have to pay for the shipping, it cost me less than some of the websites who offer free shipping to Malaysia. It's a bit pricey (ranging from RM300 and above) but since it's for 6 months I think it's not so bad (about RM50 per month).

Can't wait to see the end result in 5 months time!